FDR is a type of mediation that helps families work out disagreements about children, property, and finances after separation. Instead of going to court, you and the other person talk through the issues with the help of a trained, neutral mediator.
Yes, in most parenting cases you need to try FDR first. If FDR isn’t suitable (for example, if there’s family violence or an urgent issue), you may be exempt.
FDR can help you sort out:
- Parenting arrangements (where children live, how much time they spend with each parent, school holidays, etc.)
- Property and financial matters after separation
- Child support and expenses
- Ways to improve communication as co-parents
Usually, it’s the parents, but grandparents or other people who play an important role in the children’s lives may also be involved if needed.
It can be. You have two main options:
- A Parenting Plan, which is a written record of your agreement (not legally enforceable but taken seriously by the court), or
- Consent Orders, which are approved by the court and become legally binding.
Some families reach agreement in one session, while others may need a few. It depends on how many issues there are and how ready both people are to negotiate.
This is a certificate you may need if you want to apply to court about parenting matters. It shows you have attempted to resolve your dispute outside of court, or that the matter is not suitable for FDR or mediation.
Yes, you can. Some people prefer to have their lawyer with them for advice and support. Others attend on their own but get legal advice before or after the session. It’s completely up to you.
We understand how stressful separation can be. Our approach is professional, calm, and child-focused. We create a safe space for you to have difficult conversations and help you reach practical, workable agreements that are best for your family.
